So, tomorrow is Father's Day. I've been thinking about it a lot in the past few days. You see, neither Tall, Dark and Handsome nor my father are with us any longer. So, the only Father we have close is Tall Dark and Handsome (TDH). To add to that, it's been way too long since we've been together with Boy (yes, as in "Mrs. Mawby, You Have A Boy). You see he's been living far away and having vehicle trouble, and working three jobs...not much time to visit with your folks when that's the case. TDH and I both miss him terribly, so I have been thinking about what I can do to honor TDH, the one who works so hard on our farm, does everything he can to please me and has a heart the size of Texas.
TDH isn't the kind of guy who likes or needs material things. Making him exceptionally hard to buy for. He's more of an internal, giving, loving kind of guy. In fact, we took a magazine survey once - it agreed - he really does live to please others. So buying him something was tough. After some thought, I tried the following line of logic:
TDH is really Father to Boy. So what would Boy do if he were here? Well, Boy has always like to cook. He's also liked to be totally immersed with his food, from scratch - beginning to end - thus the pickled cattails experiment
And his enjoyment of venison - from field to plate
And sharing the things he cooks with his Dad has always been his way of showing he cares for us
AND, coincidentally, TDH LOVES FOOD TOO! I think what he enjoys most though is what food can do, such as bring people together for a fun evening and a mystery dinner party
or celebrate the holidays and good friendships with a progressive supper
Or maybe even sharing a liquid lunch with a favorite relative
I laid out the recipe - and quickly concluded that the recipe had been copied by me when I was in junior high school as an assignment for what we used to call 'Home-Ec' - now called Family and Consumer Sciences - how politically correct! I knew this as the name on top - my maiden name and half the recipe was missing - mainly some of the ingredients, the baking temp and time and most of the directions for mixing.
A quick phone call to the older sister - who always cooked and baked more than I do - who wasn't there to answer her phone in my hour of need and I knew I was on my own to fail,
This is my garbage can - with the first try of cocoa powder and water - I learned to boil the water first, then add it to the powder, not add the powder to the water and boil it...
And the mounds of dirty dishes...
I finally got it all mixed up and in the oven
After the cake came out of the oven, I began the critical part in the mind of TDH...no baked good is complete without frosting. After the prescribed 12 minutes of cooking and stirring, I added the coconut and returned the frosting to the stove to "cook until spreadable" - I stirred, and stirred, and stirred and 25 minutes later, the frosting still wasn't to the ''spreadable" state I was looking for. Turn up the heat. Stir, stir, stir...stir, stir, stir - 30 minutes -- This is ridiculous! So I decided surely it would stiffen up when it cooled. I removed it from the heat and waited for both the frosting and cake to cool to the point of putting them together.
Yes, you guessed it, I cooked the frosting too long, so instead of spreadable, I ended up covering only the middle and top of the cake with a method I now know to be a cross between play-dough playing and removing gum from your shoe. Sticky beyond belief - but I must say, it tasted good as I licked it off my fingers. I finally had a made from scratch chocolate cake kind of frosted and full of love.
After a quick search of the house for the cake carrier - where I soon rediscovered the old adage of you can't fit a square peg in a round hole (notice the square plate under the cake), I was able to put the finished product safely in its hiding spot in the basement.
Good thing I have T-bone steaks marinating and Vodka rhubarb slush to soften the blow of my 'special' Father's Day dessert. 5 hours of cooking, several failures and several close saves and TDH should be set for a good Father's Day. Now where'd we put that hammock????
Happy Father's Day My Love!